Be the Best Self-Love Artist
Masturbation is an art form in itself. While some of us are strictly paint-by-numbers, there are some of us who enjoy coloring outside of the lines, and there are some who only like finger painting. That’s the great thing about being your own self-love artist—you can color your own pleasure in any way that is pleasing for you. But sometimes, we are at a loss for inspiration and get stuck doing the same thing over and over again.
So, to make the most of your immaculate canvas and keep things fresh, I’ve come up with some inspiring ways to get your creative juices flowing.
Since they say a picture a paints a thousand words, then just imagine what your lover’s photo can do for you. For women in a relationship, there is a beauty in pleasuring yourself to a partner’s image. The great thing is it does not have to be explicit to spark arousal. It can be anything you deem hot like the day he was hiking or working under the hood of a car. He can be dressed in a memorable outfit or it can be a close-up of your favorite body part or him in a series of positions.
Cell phones these days are very handy devices and a great for multi-tasking. You can hold it in one hand, and use the other for roaming all over the body, especially when texting someone who knows how to push all the right buttons. Inspire your desire by starting off at a slow, anticipatory pace. This allows you to reflect on the content of the text while building on the arousal. Enjoy taking your time and describe in detail what you are doing, thinking and feeling.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having an immersive sexual experience by watching others doing the deed. That’s why porn was invented! In fact, visual stimulation such as porn is one of the best routes toward quick arousal. With a simple mouse click, you can find a multitude of interesting scenarios. Plus, if you ever find yourself offline, porn serves as a gateway to creating fresh fantasies.
Don’t like watching, but enjoy a good read. Erotic literature offers an array of fantasies which suit any style. It can be refined or vulgar or very direct. It really depends on your personality, your mood, and your desire for inspiration. To make it extra spicy, I suggest your partner also get into the action by reading a few of their favorite excerpts to entice a mutual masturbation session.
There are no boundaries when it comes to our imaginations. Whether you want to admit it or not, at any given time fantasies can start rolling around in our head. So, why not let your mind go wild while tickling yourself pink. Imagine yourself in bed with a celebrity crush or someone at work. It does not matter who! Just close your eyes. Then see that person right next to you in bed. Much like a movie playing in your mind, unleash inhibitions and direct the fantasy in any direction.
Symphony of Sounds
So, we’ve covered the visual aspects of masturbation, but what about those who are more about the what they hear. If you’re like me, you may enjoy listening to passionate tones or sounds. I get my mojo rising by creating a music playlist. You can start off melodic and slow, and as the tempo increases, so does your speed.
Another option is to simply listen to others having sex. Here, I found a great site where strangers upload the sounds of their own orgasms. Get in on the action and send in the sounds you make too while coming. People will get off on it.
This final tip may be a bit unconventional. But I promise it will turn you into an incredible self-love artist. Not only is this an extremely effective turn-on, it is also good for boosting self-confidence too. It concerns a mirror and watching yourself masturbate.
The exercise lets you look at all the parts that make you sexy. Don’t be shy about looking at your vulva. Gently pull your labia apart while fingering your clitoris. Watch yourself as you slide fingers into your vaginal opening.
Without judgment, try to envision yourself as a sexual being—-someone who deserves to feel pleasure. The overall objective of this exercise is imagining you are on the other side of the mirror. Don’t be too surprised when you end up seeing yourself as an attractive person for the first time in your life.
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