Finger Fucking

Rubbed Just Right: Master the Art of Finger Fucking

When was the last time you engaged in some fierce finger fucking? I mean a feel-up session so hot it resulted in one of the most intense orgasms ever. Fingers are great tools for expanding your sexual horizons. Not only does finger fucking feel delightfully stimulating, but those hand appendages come in a variety of shapes and sizes and can offer a host of different sensations.

To celebrate the art of the great sex, I’ve cooked up some finger-licking exercises for you to enjoy with your partner. Get ready for a no-“holes”-barred finger fucking fiesta!

Mise en Place

The first time I experienced an orgasm was while exploring myself with my fingers. It felt so good, I could not stop and have not since that time. In fact, most women I’ve spoken with started fingering themselves at an early age. It’s all part of the self-discovery process.

So, gentlemen if you plan on a night finger fucking, it’s best to accept that you’re a mere amateur playing on her field. Women are pros in the art of the finger-bang. So before you go digging around get the lay of her land. In other words, don’t behave like a hormonal teenage boy all excited about getting to 3rd base. Finger fucking requires finesse and deserves to be taken nice and slow.

Surveying the Pantry

Finger FuckThe saying if ‘you’ve seen one, you’ve seen them all’ does not apply when it comes to the finger fuck. A woman’s body is a hodgepodge of anatomical wonders and no two are exactly alike. That goes for a woman’s pussy too. Remember, what worked for your ex-girlfriend may not work for the new lady in your life. For example, one woman’s clit rub is another woman’s g-spot tap. So, finding the right combination is really about paying attention and communication. (Moaning = good and jerking = not good).

Marinate

Preparation is key when it comes to having a satisfying finger fucking session. You will need to prep and prime with some premium lube. And no, your saliva will not serve as an appropriate lubricant. I personally enjoy Aloe Cadabra lubes. They have an entire collection of tasty, organic lubes meant for long lasting slip and slide.

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The Appetizer

Sit between her legs and start off with the palm of your hand facing down. Insert your middle finger all the way into her vagina, then turn your hand so that your palm is facing up and comes out. Your pacing and tempo should be slow and deliberate. When you turn your hand so that your palm faces up, gently tap her clitoris with your thumb each time. Repeat it as often as necessary until she reaches orgasm.

Hor d’Oeuvre

Finger FuckSitting in front of her with your palm facing up, insert your middle finger just inside her vagina and make a “come hither” motion. Your objective is to try to stroke her belly button from the inside—in effect finding the G-spot. Don’t get aggressive right away, however. Start off slow and base your movement on her reaction. Vary the speed and pace until you find the one she likes best. After insertion, gently pump your fingers in and out of her pussy. Then when she least expects it, run your fingers along the vaginal roof toward her pubic bone and press on the spongy gaggle of nerves just a few inches inside. By maintaining pace and timing, her head will most likely explode from sheer delight.

Flambé

Finger FuckIf you really want to ignite her loins, you can start with experimenting with the back-end. This one finger fuck technique is extremely enjoyable. Start with some light vaginal teasing by inserting your middle finger and slowly dipping in and out. As she responds, begin by inserting up to the first finger joint and then to the knuckle. If you think you can fit two or more fingers, go for it—but only if she favorably responds. While you’re using your index and middle fingers in her vagina, gently slide your pinkie finger into her bum. While you go in and out, both holes will be stimulated simultaneously.

Creme Brule

This finger sex technique requires a good amount lubrication. With your index and middle fingers, start off by placing the tips of your fingers on either side of her clitoris, then glide down and make your way inside her vagina. Go back to where you started and keep repeating this maneuver. You can vary your motion from up-and-down, to circular from fast to slow. After she is worked up, move down with a stroking motion and while spreading her labia apart. Use your index finger to tease the opening of her pussy.

The Mixer

Finger FuckOxballs just released one of the most amazing toys ever. The Finger Fuck Textured Glove has a total of 5 digital implements that are guaranteed to mix things up. Make sure your hand is well lubricated before slipping on the glove. Be generous when lubricating her too. First, use the tips of your index and begin by rubbing her clitoris softly in a circular motion. The nubs on this finger can provide a host of varied sensation. With your other hand, gently pull back the clitoral hood and gently press down on her clitoris and slide your middle finger into her vagina. The glove is flexible enough where you can still use the ‘come-hither’ motion for stimulating her G-spot. You can give more pleasure by alternating the fingered implements. When she is close to coming, gently slide either the tip of the pinky or thumb into her bum. Her reaction will let you know that you’re on to something good.

Ready Whipped

While using the tips of your fingers on one hand, rub her clitoris in a soft circular motion, using the index and middle fingers. Glide in and out of her vagina using your other hand. The multiple sensations serve to increase her chances of reaching orgasm. It’s not a race. So, you don’t have to go fast. Just keep a steady rhythm. If she wants it faster, she’ll let you know.

Sweet Frosting

Finger FuckOnce you’ve started arousing your lover’s mind, her body will soon follow. Let her know how sweet she really is by giving her a little taste of her climax juices. Take your orgasm-covered fingertips and slowly run them across her lips. When she’s all revved up—she won’t hesitate to demonstrate her sucking abilities. If you want to let her taste more, then why not wrap your mouth around her privates and give her a deep, tasty, wet kiss.

Covered and Smothered

Mastering the art of the finger fuck is all about using your sense of touch. Your fingers give you the ability to predict what she’s feeling. It is all based on her reactions and expressions. Of course, you should encourage her to be vocal about what she likes. If she begins breathing heavy and saying “Yes! Deeper! Faster! More!” then it’s quite likely that she wants to devour you. So go on—reach out and touch someone —but wash those hands and clip those nails, because it’s going to be a wet and wild ride!

 

 

 

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