DIY Bondage Gear

DIY Bondage Gear: Amp Up Your Sex Life Today!

DIY bondage gear can be just as much fun as using store bought gear. Some of my most memorable bedroom antics involved some form bondage simply using things lying around the house. Using spontaneous bondage gear really helps in amplifying the pleasure by creating a sexual charge. DIY bondage gear is all around you. A treasure trove of unfulfilled fantasies is just lying around your home. You just need to look around.

Here are some general DIY bondage gear tips you can start using today.

Look Around You

I’m always seeing DIY bondage gear whenever I go shopping. Although my husband thinks I’m crazy, he gets to enjoy the fruits of my demented mind. Even a simple trip to the drugstore can yield some amazing sex toys. It was fun when we found the bright red rubber gloves in Germany.

In fact, any household object can be used for sexual play. Be it a tie, belt, pillowcase, sweater, socks, or bungee cords, you can make due with virtually anything. Ties can easily be something used to restrain someone to the bedposts. A pillowcase makes for a great impromptu hood. Clean socks or panties can be used as a gag. Ace bandages can be sued as blindfolds. Even a trip to the Family Dollar store can be fun.

Heavenly Bodies

Body weight is a great form of DIY bondage gear and is perfect for controlling your partner’s movements, no matter if you’re big or small. *CAUTION — be conscious of body weight placement. You don’t want to constrict breathing or cause bodily harm.Joints are easier to manipulate. Go for the bony landmarks such as hips, shoulders, wrists, elbows, and ankles.  You can hold your partner down using your hands with a firmly grasp. I enjoy having my arms raised above my head while my lover pins me to the mattress and fucks me silly. This also works for kissing too. Simply hold their jaw and head in place for a more impactful action. Try some gradual hair pulling too. But be careful not to snap the neck too hard.

DIY Bondage Gear

Think More Kink

I remember as a child being punished with a wooden spoon. My mother would smack the shit out of the back of my thighs. Kitchen implements have a dual purpose in my house. Chops sticks, for instance, can be used for nipple clamps by placing a rubber band on each end. The closer the bands are to the center, the tighter the grasp. Paddle hair brushes are multipurpose too. Use the flat side for a stingy smack to the ass and the bristled side for a more textured sensation. You may surprise yourself just by taking a look around.

DIY Bondage Gear

Reframing Bondage

Bondage is more than just doling out punishment and pain. (Though there’s nothing wrong with that.) It’s about connecting with your partner in meaningful and creative ways. You never know what you will discover when trying to amp up your sex life. I’m sure if you set your mind to it, you and your partner will find inventive ways of playing with DIY bondage gear.

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