Phone Sex Operator

Connection Request: Confessions of Phone Sex Operator | Part One

Phone Sex Operator Confessions: Part One

phone sex operatorBeing a phone sex operator is harder than it sounds. The job is more than just lying back in oversized sweatpants while playing finger-fuck pretend with strangers. A successful phone sex operator has to be cunning and sweet, demure and approachable–basically, the Meryl Streep of the sexual underworld.

Earn. Extra. Cash.

The ad said…”Phone Actress Wanted”. Earn money fast without ever leaving the house! “Hey, where do I sign up?”, I thought. The job was perfect for me. I was not only the lead in the high school production of Pippin, I could realistically fake orgasms at the drop of a hat and cuss like a slutty truck driver. How hard could phone acting be?

But Wait — There’s More!

phone sex operatorDepending on how you see it phone sex does not require the prerequisite dinner and a movie—no wining or dining and absolutely no foreplay. The reason being is the person (normally a guy) is paying on average $4.99 per minute. Time is money and they want to get off as fast as they can. Being a phone sex operator is like going out on a blind speed-date complete with a happy ending.

Phone Sex is a Thriving Business

phone sex operatorOne would automatically assume being a phone sex operator a thing of the past. And in some ways it. As a phone sex operator, you must have a landline.  It’s also hard competing with the plethora of free-streaming porn and webcam girls. But not everyone is into risking their identity. The reason why phone sex is still popular is that there’s barely any risk involved. You can become anyone just by altering the tone of your voice.

Believe it or not, there are thousands of phone sex hosting companies. The appeal for me was knowing  I would be safe chatting it up with strangers in the middle of the night. The company I owned a bank of 1-800 numbers. Unfortunately, they also took the lion’s share of the profit, with me netting about .60 per minute. Think about that for just a minute. The company is charging $4.99 per minute and paying the talent only 12 percent. What a racket!

The Rules Are the Rules

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Most of the phone sex companies have an application process. You basically write an essay on what makes you sexy and submit to the hiring manager. After being selected, you go through a “getting to know you” orientation over the phone. A seasoned professional provides insight and shares do’s and don’ts of being a phone sex operator. Here are some of the no-brainer Don’ts:

  • Do not ever share your location.
  • Do not ever give out your real name.
  • Do not ever give them your private phone number.
  • Do not ever hang up on a caller, no matter the content.

Phone Sex Operator Working Conditions

You just might make it in the competitive world as a phone sex operator if you have the gift of gab. Other talents are being able to talk like a little girl, act like a dominant female, take orders, and also make spanking and masturbation sound realistic. I kept a series of handy toys by my side to make the experience more realistic for the caller. However, for the guys who like hearing slapping and spanking, you might accidentally bruise or injure yourself.  The greatest gift of all, however; is being able to spin terrific tales of sexual exploits. I recommend boning up on erotic stories.

Sexual Improv

phone sex operatorHaving specific physical attributes is not as important than storytelling. You have to be flexible in your make-believe looks and have a strong talent for drawing men into a fantasy. One minute you could be blonde with enormous tits and the next minute, Latina-mix with a huge ass. It took me a total of three days of inventing the girl-next-door persona. I realized the job wasn’t really about me but more about servicing the customer. So, I settled on a young college co-ed based out of Tulsa, Oklahoma. Gigi enjoyed ballet, art, and literature and loved her cat named Mittens. However, she loved expressing her deviant side. She was a horny co-ed engaging in sex with complete strangers and participated in mutual group masturbation parties.

Making My Debut

I’m a night owl. So, I set my schedule between the hours of midnight and three a.m. Before logging in, I had overwhelming anxiety. My heart was beating a mile a minute and my throat started swelling. Unlike my high school performance, I was experiencing a little stage fright. What if they laugh at me?  What if they find out I’m not real? What if they guess my real name? What if they ask me questions I don’t have answers for?  I was not allowing Gigi to move into me and was completely mind-fucking my real self.

Dialing In

phone sex operatorWith hands shaking and a rapid heartbeat, I dialed in. “Leave a sexy message now,” the breathy prompt instructed. My first message was “Hi, this is Gigi, and I like to do naughty things with my hair brush—giggle.” Press 3 if you’re satisfied with your sexy message, the breathy voice commanded or Press 2 to try again. It took

It took five attempts to finally feel satisfied and without any more delay, I selected 3 for my callers to hear my opening message: “To Shave or Not To Shave. That is the question?” If that doesn’t get them, nothing will, I thought.

Within seconds the sexed up voice came through my headphone, “You have a connection request. Press 1 to connect to your caller.”  My jelly finger pressed the button and before I knew, there was a stranger on the other end.

The Cherry Popped

I cleared the frog from my throat and whispered, “Well, hello there. My name is Gigi. How can I service you tonight?”

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There was someone on the other side—breathing.  A man that would be my first—the one who popped my phone sex cherry. He took another deep breath and asked in a long southern drawl, “Does the carpet match the drapes—I can help you shave it.”

It was so tempting just to hand up. But I was curious in hearing more details. It was sinking in; Gigi had taken over!